Tips for Adopting a Cat: Your Go-To Guide

Tips for Adopting a Cat: Your Go-To Guide

Adopting a cat is one of the most exciting and rewarding decisions you can make, but it can also be overwhelming with all the preparation that comes with it. Whether you're a first-time pet parent or just adding a new furry member to your family, having the right knowledge and advice can make the transition smoother for you and your new feline friend. In this go-to guide, we'll walk you through everything you need to know about adopting a cat—from preparing your home to understanding your cat's needs—to create a stress-free start to your life together.

Getting Ready for Your New Cat

The best thing you can do during (or before) the adoption process is to get organized. Even if you’re an experienced cat owner, it’s good to refresh yourself on the basics of welcoming a new household addition, like the ones below.

Gather the Essentials

Litter Box

A litter box is a must-have for your new cat—even if you already have others for your current cats. The general rule is to have one litter box per cat, plus an extra to help prevent territorial issues and ensure easy access. We recommend a stainless steel option for cleanliness and suggest placing them in quiet, easily accessible spots.

The number one priority when introducing a cat is to keep the litter boxes clean to encourage regular use. If you already have other cats, providing separate boxes initially can help ease the transition and reduce stress. Over time, as your cats become more comfortable with each other, they may choose to share, but maintaining multiple boxes helps prevent conflict and promotes good litter box habits.

Food and Water Bowls

Your cat needs a dedicated place to eat and drink and may see this as a source of “safety” when being introduced into your home. Stainless steel or ceramic options are best since they don’t hold odors, help prevent cat acne, and are dishwasher safe.

Again, even if you already have another cat, it’s important to ease your new cat into their environment by providing their own supplies.

Scratching Posts

Cats have a natural instinct to scratch, so providing scratching posts is crucial—not just to accommodate their needs but also to protect your furniture! We recommend placing a few scratchers around your home, especially in areas cats typically gravitate toward (like sofa corners).

You can shop some of our recommendations here.

Set Up a Cat-Friendly Space Beforehand

Setting up a cat-friendly space before bringing your new feline home is key to helping your kitty feel safe and comfortable. Make sure to designate a quiet room as their initial “safe space” and fill it with all their essentials (i.e., food, water, a litter box, scratchers, and a cozy bed).

Include plenty of hiding spots—such as under a bed, inside cardboard boxes, or in cat tunnels—to give them a place to retreat if they feel scared or overwhelmed. If you’re looking to make this space a more long-term or permanent cat room, adding climbing opportunities like cat trees or wall-mounted shelves allows them to explore vertically and feel more at home.

Creating a nurturing and clean environment will help ease their transition and encourage them to come out and explore at their own pace.

Find a Vet Early

Even if your new family member comes with their vaccinations up to date, it’s important to find a vet early on. A vet can provide initial health checks, vaccinations, and guidance on nutrition and care—as well as spaying or neutering if your kitten is too young to have it done before bringing them home.

When selecting a vet, consider asking about their experience with cats, office hours and protocols, emergency services, and the typical costs associated with those services. Your cat’s health and comfort should be your number one priority, so it’s okay to shop around for vets until you find one that works for your household—just make sure to keep a copy of all medical paperwork!

Speaking of medical paperwork, it’s also helpful to have your cat’s medical history, vaccination records, and notes of any concerns ready for the first visit if you’re adopting your cat from a rescue or shelter. Establishing a relationship with a reliable vet early helps catch any potential health issues and sets the foundation for a long, healthy life for your new feline friend.

The Initial Adjustment Period

Bringing a new cat home is an exciting experience, but it’s important to remember that adjusting to a new environment takes time. Every cat is different—some may settle in quickly, while others need more time to feel safe and comfortable. By understanding the adjustment process and setting up a stress-free transition, you can help your new feline friend feel at home as smoothly as possible.

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Know the 3-3-3 Adoption Rule

The initial adjustment period for a new cat is best understood through the 3-3-3 Adoption Rule: 3 days to feel less overwhelmed, 3 weeks to settle in, and 3 months to fully adjust and feel at home. This guideline helps set realistic expectations for their behavior and progress but is not a strict rule, as each cat has its own personality—some may be more timid than others.

Understanding this rule can help assess if you need to make any adjustments during this transition period and emphasizes patience and consistency—making the transition hopefully less stressful for both you and your new feline friend.

Day One Guidelines

As your cat begins to feel more at ease in their new home, continue to be patient and allow them to adjust at their own pace, gradually introducing new experiences and family members.

Provide a Safe Space

As previously mentioned, set up a designated room where your new cat can feel secure and relaxed. Make sure to include easy-to-access essentials like food, water, a litter box, and cozy bedding. This can help your new cat feel less overwhelmed by all the “newness” and help them acclimate more quickly.

Give Them Time to Explore

This is where the patience comes in–allow your cat to explore their new surroundings at their own pace. Don’t force interaction; instead, let them come to you when they’re ready, and until they make the first move, just co-exist like you would without them being there. This builds their confidence and helps them feel more in control of their new environment.

Introduce Family Members Slowly

We know it’s tempting to bring over friends and family to meet your newest addition, but we recommend waiting at least a few days before doing so. If you have other pets or family members (like small children), introduce them gradually. Start with short, supervised interactions and watch for signs of stress or aggression from your cat so you can intervene if necessary. This slow introduction helps prevent negative experiences and fosters positive relationships with both animals and people.

Maintain a Calm Environment

We know this can be difficult if you’re not the only one in your home, but try to keep noise and activity levels low on the first day or so to reduce stress. If possible, avoid making loud noises that could startle your cat, like vacuuming or running the washer or dryer. A calm environment will help your cat destress and settle in more easily.

Introducing Your Cat to Your Household

Properly introducing your new cat to your household helps reduce stress, prevent behavioral issues, and sets the stage for a safe, harmonious environment where everyone—humans and pets alike—can thrive together.

Introducing to Kids

To avoid any negative experiences, teach young children to approach the new cat calmly and gently. Encourage them to use quiet voices and slow movements, and supervise their initial interactions to ensure both the cat and kids feel safe. These steps may feel tedious, but they help build a trusting relationship between your cat and your children.

Introducing to Other Pets

Cats are notorious for being territorial, so it’s important to start off on the right foot (or paw). Introduce your new cat to existing pets gradually—start by allowing them to sniff each other’s scent through a closed door, and then progress to supervised face-to-face meetings. This can take a few days, but it’s imperative to ensure both cats are open to interacting before putting them together. When they’re face-to-face, monitor their interactions closely to prevent stress and aggression. You can even revert back to keeping them separated and reintroduce them if necessary.

Establishing Territory

If you have other pets in the home, it’s important to provide multiple resources (such as litter boxes, food stations, and scratching posts) throughout your home. This prevents competition for resources, which reduces territorial issues and helps your new cat establish their own territory, allowing them to understand their place in the household hierarchy.

Exploring Different Rooms

Once your cat feels secure in their designated safe space, you can introduce them to other areas of your home. Open doors one at a time and let them explore at their own pace, always providing access to their safe room. If your kitten is young and hasn’t been litter box trained yet, we recommend keeping an eye on where they’re exploring just in case of any potential accidents.

Using Positive Reinforcement

Like any good cocktail party host knows, food helps people get along. Reward your cat with treats, praise, and pets for positive behavior during introductions to both people and animals. These positive reinforcements encourage them to associate new experiences with positive outcomes. Not only will this help create a stronger bond between you and your cat, but positive reinforcement also helps reduce anxiety and can help acclimate them to your household.

3 Tips for Establishing a Routine and Building a Bond

Creating a routine and building trust with your new cat is one of the most important parts of the adoption journey. Routine gives your cat a sense of safety, helping them learn what to expect from day to day. And when your cat feels safe, they’re more likely to open up, form bonds, and develop healthy habits. These tips are designed to support a strong relationship between you and your new feline companion—fostering trust, encouraging positive behavior, and making your life together feel more connected and rewarding.

1. Create a Consistent Routine

Establish a daily schedule for feeding, playtime, and quiet time to help your new cat feel secure. Consistency in these activities reduces stress and helps your cat understand what to expect from day to day. Over time, this predictable routine fosters a sense of stability and trust. That means if you’re not working from home, it’s important to give your cat plenty of space to adjust to you not being available 24/7.

2. Training and Interactive Play

Interactive play sessions with toys like feather wands or laser pointers can be a great bonding opportunity. These activities not only provide physical exercise and enrichment but also strengthen your bond through positive interactions. No matter if your new furry friend is a kitten or an adult cat, make sure to incorporate basic training—like using a scratching post—to encourage good behavior they may not already be in the habit of.2.

3. Allow Time for Adjustment

Be patient and give your cat time to adjust to their new environment. Every cat is different, and some may take longer to feel comfortable and secure. While the 3-3-3 Rule is a great guideline, it doesn’t mean you should expect your cat to be your best friend by month three. Respect their pace and continue to provide gentle reassurance and support as they settle into their new home.

Final Note

Adding a cat to your home is one of the best experiences you can have, and we’re so excited for your family to grow! Keep these pieces of advice in mind, but also get to know your kitty’s personality and follow their lead for the best results—so they’re truly feline fine in their new environment.

FAQs on Adopting a Cat

What to avoid when adopting a cat?

Avoid adopting a cat on impulse or without thorough preparation. While the “cat distribution system” can strike at any time, it’s important to do your research and be ready for the responsibilities and long-term commitment of cat ownership.

If you’re adopting from a shelter or rescue, be sure to ask if the cat has had any previous medical issues or underlying conditions, such as FIV. Cats are master adapters and can live long, full lives with certain conditions—but they may require extra care and come with additional financial responsibilities you'll need to consider.

Also, steer clear of environments where animals may not have been well cared for, such as unregulated breeders.

What is the best cat age to adopt?

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer—it depends on your lifestyle and preferences. Kittens require more time and training but can be easily socialized, while adult cats often have established temperaments and may require less supervision. Senior cats can be a great choice for a quieter household.

All cats have unique personalities, so it’s important to understand whether the cat you’re interested in would do well on their own or needs a companion in the home. If you’re adopting kittens, in particular, it may be a better option to adopt two at a time.

Is it better to adopt 2 cats instead of 1?

It truly depends on the cat and the situation! Adopting two cats can be beneficial, as they provide companionship and can keep each other entertained—especially as kittens, when they have rampant energy. If you’re away from home frequently and are adopting a young cat that hasn’t previously lived in a household, we recommend adopting two so your feline doesn’t get bored or lonely.

That said, many cats are perfectly happy being the only cat in the home and may even prefer it. If you decide to adopt two at once, just make sure you have the resources and space to accommodate multiple pets comfortably.

Should I sleep in the same room as my new cat?

If their designated safe space includes a bed, we recommend it! Sleeping in the same room as your new cat can help them feel secure and comforted during the initial adjustment period. It also allows you to monitor their behavior and ensure they settle in safely.

However, if either you or the cat prefers otherwise, you can gradually transition them to their own sleeping area (though expect them to eventually nap anywhere there’s a cozy spot to stretch out).

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Getting Cat and Dog to Get Along - Tips for Integrating Dogs and Cats

In our previous post, we discussed plans for bringing a new pet home and setting up an environment for success for both animals. Now that you have management in place, and both pets have had a chance to settle in, how do we go about introducing Fido and Whiskers?
Do not be tempted to try the “let’s see what happens” approach. Not only could this lay a bad foundation for their relationship, but it could be potentially dangerous as well. Instead, gradual and steady is going to be the secret to a good cat-dog relationship.

Foundation Skills
Before you begin to introduce the two, it is helpful if both animals know a few basic foundation skills to begin with.
Attention
The first thing we need is an animal who will happily offer you attention. You will start in a low distraction area, and have about 10 small, tasty treats in your hand:

Wait for your pet to look up at you (don’t get too concerned about direct eye contact at this stage – what we are looking for is attention and focus on you).
Use a word like “yes!” to mark the moment they give you attention, then drop a treat on the floor for them to eat.
Wait for your pet to eat the treat and look back up at you.
Mark again with “yes!” and drop another treat. Repeat.
Start adding a cue, such as the pet’s name, right before they look up.

Video ExamplesCat: https://youtu.be/ibxY7p6prtwDog: https://youtu.be/Oe5QsAZf-3A

Hand Target
A hand target (pet touching their nose to your hand) is a very easy behavior to train, and can be a simple way to get your pet to come to you, move, change position, etc. in case your dog starts to get overly interested in their new feline friend, or vice versa. Simply present your hand a couple inches from their nose. When they move forward and sniff, bumping your hand in the process, say “yes” and deliver a treat. Repeat.
Video ExamplesCat: https://youtu.be/CNOv3f3gHKkDog: https://youtu.be/TWjfsAO1NWE

Stationing
Teaching your pet to place themselves on a mat or platform will be a helpful skill when you begin sessions with both of them present. A dog that is resting on a mat can’t be chasing the cat, and a cat that is perching on a station can’t be taunting or swatting at a dog. Teach this skill first without the other pet present:

Approach the mat with your pet and as they start to step on it, drop treats. Continue to deliver treats for several seconds.
Toss a “re-set cookie” a few feet to the side so that your pet moves off and is ready for another repetition. Before throwing the cookie, you can give a “release word” such as “OK” or “break” which will be your pet’s cue to move off the station in the future.
As your pet heads back to the mat, begin rewarding on the mat again.
If they sit or lie down, reward that.
Once they are consistently offering a sit or down on the station, you can only reward when they are in that position so that it becomes the default behavior once they get to the mat.

Video ExamplesCat: https://youtu.be/4R1-K430DxoDog: https://youtu.be/53_R7276b_k
Putting It Together
Place your pet’s respective stations in an area where they are as far away from each other as possible but still in view. To prevent any unwanted contact from happening too soon, have the dog on leash, and a see-through barrier such as a baby gate between the areas where each will be working.
Have your dog relax on their station with one handler. Give treats every few seconds for maintaining that relaxed position. Have a second handler bring the cat out to their station, and also reward every couple seconds. Continue to reinforce any of the following behaviors on either animal’s part:

Attention to their handler.
Remaining in a relaxed position on the mat and not trying to get to the other animal.
“Look At/Look Away”: You can reward your pet for looking briefly and calmly at the other pet and then back at you. When your dog, for instance, glances over at the cat, pause for one second (no longer), then use their name to cue them to look back at you. Reward with a high value treat. Any time they look calmly at the other pet and then back at you, reward. This reinforces not getting hyper-focused on the other pet, and also builds a positive emotional association with the other, since looking at them produces good things!

If things are going well, then in future sessions you can start to raise challenges. Remember, patience and consistency is the key to success here! Options for increasing challenge in the training sessions are:


Gradually decrease distance between the two mats.
Add motion from one animal. You might have the cat follow your hand target, play with a toy or chase tossed treats while your dog stays on the mat, then vice versa.

Video ExamplesVideo Example (separated): https://youtu.be/hKDJfcyHaOMVideo Example (integrated): https://youtu.be/CDhSuWK41XM
You will know things are going well if both animals continue to show relaxed body language, casual interest in each other, but an ability to disengage and focus on other things (especially you). When you are consistently seeing this, then you might be ready to remove the gate, and let them share space. Continue to have Fido drag a lightweight leash for a bit longer, and continue to reward any calm behavior.
Troubleshooting

Over-excitement
If your dog gets too excited by the presence of the cat to stay on the mat or focus on you, then make it easier by increasing distance and shortening the duration of time that the cat is visible. You can have your cat move out onto the station briefly then back out of view (hand targets or tossed treats can help with this), and/or cover most of the baby gate between the two with a blanket, leaving only a small gap initially that the cat is visible through. Only progress further when your dog is able to be successful, and go forward in baby steps.
Fear
If your cat is too afraid of your dog’s presence to even come out to their station, then let them stay where they feel safe. You might need to begin by desensitizing your cat to more mild signs of the dog’s presence before working on being in view. Sit with your cat in their safe space, and reward when they hear the dog moving around in the other room, on the other side of the door, etc. As above, when you introduce visual exposure, use short duration of exposure, and/or partially obstructed views. Never force your cat to come out into an area where the dog is – let it be their choice and reward generously when they do.
Single Handlers
If you don’t have someone to handle one of the pets, then it usually will be easiest for you to work with your dog, and to place a longer-duration treat on your cat’s station for them to enjoy. You can provide some tasty canned food in a bowl, or for an even longer-duration treat, use a “licki-mat” and some semi-soft food or treats that will take a while for your cat to lick up.
Difficult Situations

While the majority of cats and dogs can learn to live peacefully and happily together given the right preparation and training, there are some pairings that sadly may not be meant to be. These are the two most important aspects to consider in determining whether cat/dog households can work:

Safety
Many dogs find cats pretty interesting at first, but if your dog becomes so fixated that they cannot be redirected, they persistently and intensely look for and try to get to the cat, and struggle to calm down even when the cat is no longer present, then proceed with caution. A dog with very high predatory drive can be very dangerous to a cat, and this level of hunting instinct can be difficult or even impossible to train fully away. Use very careful management to keep them separate (see previous post), and consult with a certified professional dog trainer or behavior consultant who uses positive reinforcement to discuss next steps.
Quality of Life
Some cats, especially those that tend towards being more timid normally, may find the addition of a dog to be extremely stressful. Again, training can help to change those fear responses, but in some cases in can be a long road and you might not get to the point where your cat’s life and routine isn’t being significantly affected. If your cat is hiding all or most of the time, no longer engaging socially, not eating, not using the litterbox, and/or having other behavior changes, you might need to consider whether this new addition is fair to your cat’s quality of life.Sadly, sometimes dogs and cats may not be able to be integrated to a degree that safety and quality of life can be maintained. Consultation with a professional will help you determine when and whether it would be in their best interest to re-home one of them. While these decisions can be heart-breaking, in some cases, they are the kindest choices to make.
Remember To Be Proactive!
Finally, a few pointers to keep in mind in any training project:

Set the animals up for success.
Reward the behaviors you like.
Prevent undesired behaviors from happening.
Start out easier than you think you need, and move forward gradually.

Steer away from punishment-based approaches where you are doing something unpleasant to stop a behavior that you don’t like. These approaches not only risk someone getting scared or hurt, but can create longer-term relationship problems between the pets, as their presence becomes associated with the unpleasant punishment. Rather than waiting for your dog to chase the cat and scolding them, set the stage so that never happens in the first place because Fido has instead learned to be relaxed and to do other things in the presence of felines.
Be proactive rather than reactive, and remember that taking it slow will get you to your goal faster in the long run. The reward for your hard work and patience will be many years of multi-species bliss ahead!
Video ExamplesCat: https://youtu.be/ibxY7p6prtwDog: https://youtu.be/Oe5QsAZf-3A

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